Saturday 11 November 2006

The Wedding - Reception

We had asked my mum’s cousin Scott to MC the reception and he did a fantastic job. Although there was one part at the beginning of the night that Tony would love to take credit for but unfortunately it was just a genuine mistake. Before the day when giving Scott the list of the bridal party names we had listed Kayla & Georgie first. Just prior to the reception the bridal party stayed in a holding room with drinks and nibbles and it was decided that the bestman & maid of honour would walk into the room first (as we wanted to do the entry to the room slightly different and the big girls and little girls were struggling with where they had to be…) so as the music starts, Tony’s excellent choice of “hey hey were the monkeys” Scott introduces the beautiful flowergirls and in walks Charlie & Erin. It was very funny but a shame as Scott was nervous as it was about the MC job!
After the great meal, we cut the cake to Rod Stewarts “Have I told you lately” and settled in, for what seemed most the night, to listen to /give speeches.
As with tradition, the father of the bride speech was first. Dad was really good & it was funny. A few things of my childhood were mentioned that everyone got a laugh out of.
Charlie’s speech was the best “bestman’s speech” I have heard, he was hilarious with comments such as “I have contacted the Canadian Embassy and they have advised I don’t have to apologise for Celine Dion and you don’t have to apologise for Rolf Harris” and toasting everyone and everyone and stating that it was a great drinking game martini
Tony hates watching his speech but he did very well and also used humour, only the men seemed to do the funny speeches, and got away with reminding the Australian’s that they came from convicts.
The floor was opened to anyone who wanted to say a few words, which is traditional in Australia but not heard of really in the UK, and quite a few people spoke. Everyone had something really nice to say and although it went for a long time it was enjoyable, the only downside was by the end there was no alcohol left in anyone’s glass and the room was still mostly sober!
Tony and I then had our first dance to “I’ll see it through – Texas”. The dance floor was pretty quiet for a while until Tony & Charlie broke the ice when Bohemian Rhapsody came on to which they performed their traditional head-bang to.
We managed to squeeze in some fun songs, the bridesmaids and I managed to make it through “The Nutbush” and quite a few guests joined in “Superman – Black Lace”!
Towards the end of the night came the bouquet toss together with the garter toss which is very common in Australia but not done in the UK, both were done to “one way or another – Blondie”.
Just prior to Tony & I leaving we had yet another Australian wedding tradition of the guests standing around in what’s called known as the farewell circle so we could go around and say goodbye to everyone. All the guests then turned into a human arch for us to run through to make our way outside.

LATER IN THE NIGHT

No – not what you are thinking!! We will keep the private stuff private haha smile_wink
Tony and I stayed at the resort part of Twin Towns (the wedding ceremony and reception were held at the Twin Town’s sister RSL club). Most of the wedding guests were due to catch the courtesy bus from Club Banora to Twin Towns at midnight. After having a drink and relax in the room we decided that the night was still young and got ourselves over to the pub part of Twin Towns (still in wedding dress & suit!) to meet the guests who decided to stay out & drink for a while.
There was a live band playing and not long after we arrived one of the guests grabbed me and ran me across the dancefloor and lifted me on the stage as the bank were signing YMCA. The band then changed the tune midway through to “going to the chapel” and sung their own version of “she must be pregnant coz she just got married”
I then had to quickly get off stage as one of the bouncers was heading my way!
We had a few drinks there then made our way back to the hotel.
It was a fantastic day/night and everyone had a wonderful time – well worth the 10 months or so planning!

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The Wedding - Ceremony

I wasn’t a traditionally late bride, we were actually a little early so that gave us plenty of time to get into positions for when the walking the aisle music started “it is you I have loved – Dana Glover”.
As I walked towards where the ceremony was taking place my heart was pounding, then I saw Tony who looked fantastic and it felt magical. Lots of people who mean a lot to us managed to make it there to share the day with us and there were quite a few tears (happy ones I hope!) when we were declared husband & wife. Kiss

Ceremony Wording - Written by Nikki & Tony

The Marriage of Tony and Nikki
Club Banora, Banora Point
11 November 2006
Introduction
Welcome family and friends. We have come together today to reflect the joy and celebrate the marriage between Nikki and Tony. Just when neither of them was expecting it, and after several detours during their lives, a amazing event occurred – they met each other and fell in love. In their hearts, they are already committed to one another. This ceremony gives formal recognition to that commitment. As you have shared different parts of their lives at one time or another, now you can share in the one day that will always remain special.

Reading
And now I would like to ask Malcolm Hitchinson Father of the groom to do a Reading, This is a Song that means a great deal to both Tony and Nikki
Green Eyes By Coldplay

you are a rock
Upon which I stand
And I come here to talk
I hope you understand
Yeah the spotlight
Shines upon you
And how could
Anybody
Deny you
I came here with a load
And it feels so much lighter
Now I've met you
you should know
That I could never go on
Without you
Green eyes
you are the sea
Upon which I float
And I came here to talk
I think you should know
You're the one that I wanted to find
And anyone who tried to deny you,
Must be out of their minds
you are a rock
Upon which I stand.

Giving Away
As has been the custom for many years, we see the Nikki lovingly and tenderly escorted, and presented for marriage, by her father Kenny.
Nikki has chosen to respect this custom, but she wishes to show her gratitude to both of her parents who loved her as a small child. They watched over her, taught her and they have loved her.

Today, we see the result of their achievement as parents. We see that they have accomplished, with success, everything that is expected of loving parents. Their little girl has grown into a beautiful young woman, and this affectionate act of love for Nikki shows their approval for Nikki & Tony to be married today.
However, we still officially ask:
Who brings Nikki to be married to Tony?
Kenny & Beth: We do.

Celebrant Authority

My name is Tennille Jones and I am duly authorised to solemnise marriages according to law. Nikki Jane Campbell and Anthony Hitchinson, before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter. According to law in Australia, marriage is the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.
The Asking
Tony, you have taken Nikki as your friend and now you are inviting her to be your wife and life companion. Do you promise to openly share your life with Nikki – to love, laugh, live for and dream with? Do you promise to accept her as she is and delight in who she is becoming? Will you always be there to comfort her in her sorrows and take pleasure in her triumphs? Will you lovingly support her hopes and dreams and stand by her through whatever may come?
Tony: I will

Nikki, you have taken Tony as your friend and now you are inviting him to be your husband and life companion. Do you promise to openly share your life with Tony – to love, laugh, live for and dream with? Do you promise to accept her as him as he is and delight in who he is becoming? Will you always be there to comfort him in his sorrows and take pleasure in his triumphs? Will you lovingly support his hopes and dreams and stand by him through whatever may come?
Nikki: I will

The Vows
Tony, please repeat your chosen vows of commitment after me.
I ask our family and friends here present to witness that I, Anthony Hitchinson, take you, Nikki Campbell, to be my lawful wedded wife
I love and adore you, you mean the world to me. Today I ask that you share my life forever. I pledge that I will always be loving to you, and always be honest and faithful. There will be fun times, there may be sad times, but no matter what we may encounter, we have each other.
I vow here that this love will be my only love. I will make my home in your heart from this day forward.

Nikki, please repeat after me. I ask our family and friends here present
to witness that I, Nikki Campbell, take you, Anthony Hitchinson, to be my lawful wedded wife husband. I promise to love you, treasure you and respect you. I promise as your wife, to laugh with you, to cry with you, to encourage you and inspire you and to love you with all that I am and all that I shall become. This I promise from the depth of my heart and soul for all our life together.

Ring Exchange
Nikki and Tony, what symbol do you have as a pledge of these vows?
Nikki and Tony: These rings.
These Rings with their unending circles symbolise both of your ever lasting love for each other

Tony, please place Nikki’s ring over the tip of her finger and repeat after me.
Nikki with this ring
I wed you
and promise my love always.
Nikki, please repeat after me.
Tony, with this ring
I wed you
and promise my love always.

Rose Exchange
Not only are Nikki and Tony creating a marriage today, but they also are forming a family with Kayla and Georgina. Just as it is appropriate for Nikki and Tony to declare their love for each other, they also wish to show you (to the children) how much they love you with the gift of a rose.

Reading
Read by Sheila Campbell (bride’s stepmother)

You are the star of each night,
You are the brightness of every morning,
You are the story of each guest,
You are the report of every land.
No evil shall befall you, on hill nor bank,
In field or valley, on mountain or in glen.
Neither above nor below, neither in sea nor on shore,
In skies above nor in the depths.
You are the kernel of my heart,
You are the face of my sun,
You are the harp of my music,
You are the crown of my company.

Declaration of Marriage
Nikki and Tony, we have heard your vows and you have symbolised your union by pledging your lives to each other, exchanging rings and through the gift of a rose. May you retain the strength you need to keep the promises you have made. May life enrich you more than you have imagined and your united influence bring happiness to your family and friends. As you have consented together in lawful marriage in the presence of these witnesses, I now declare you husband and wife. You may Kiss the Bride.

Signing of Register
We will now formalise this marriage by signing the Register and Certificates.
Charles Watson & Erin Gray will you please join us.

Congratulations Mr & Mrs Hitchinson.

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The Wedding - Preparations & Dramas

Well after months of organising and going mad trying to get everything in order from the other side of the world the big day finally arrived.
Needless to say there were a few hiccups upon our arrival to Australia for the final preparations. My mum was given a couple of tasks to control while we were not in the country and as some of you reading this will know those things did not run too smoothly. First was the cake, as at 6 weeks to the big day we were on our 4th cake maker (who was actually the first…) the other 2 in the meantime that fell through was by no means anyone’s fault just time was ticking away. However it didn’t help the stress levels when mum informed me that at 3 weeks prior to the wedding she didn’t have the cake maker’s phone number!! On one of our many drives up to Brisbane from the gold coast we stopped by her house and had to leave a note in the her post box to call us. As you will see in our photos the cake was made in time and was absolutely beautiful! Phew!
The next drama, another one of mum’s jobs, was the ring. Mum had to collect Tony’s wedding band and keep it safe until we arrived.
A couple of days before Tony arrived I asked mum to see the ring so I could keep it with my one. This started a hunt through her entire unit as it seemed to have been misplaced!!! By the time Tony arrived at the Gold Coast the ring was still missing, so we had to head back up to Brisbane and order a replica to be made in 2 weeks. Tension was still rife as when we went back to Brisbane to collect the ring a few days before the 11th and it still wasn’t ready. We managed to convince my brother to pick it up and bring it to the rehearsal at the Gold coast.
During the couple of weeks before the wedding the weather at the Gold Coast was not as to be expected! In between high winds and overcast days there were many large thunderstorms! The biggest storm took place on the day that I had my final dress fitting and the boys had their suit fittings. Luckily when the lightning struck and caused the power to fail in the shopping centre, I had just seen the dress on and approved the last minute changes that were made. The boys however were not as lucky as due to the power failure the alterations on my brother’s suit could not be made and an electronic payment transaction could not be processed for my dads. They then had to travel back the day before the wedding to collect them.
The weather played up again for us, the wedding rehearsal took place 2 days before the wedding at the venue.
The rain had set in for the morning and was still pouring when we arrived at the venue – keeping in mind the ceremony is an outdoors venue we then were being told the arrangements that could be made if necessary for a dry place on the day. By some miracle the rain stopped long enough for the major part of the ceremony rehearsal but as we were standing on the man made beach towards the end a storm had been brewing and we witnessed a huge sheet of rain coming towards us – running for shelter we didn’t really go through properly what was to happen at the end of the ceremony. So we just had to wait and find out.

The morning of the 11th arrived and I actually woke up quite calm and waited for the bridesmaids to arrive. They were absolute stars helping getting Kayla & Georgie ready, and running around after me. Time started to run out as the limo was due to arrive, the flowers and photographer had turned up and I wasn’t finished getting dressed! I only managed to have half a glass of champagne before it was time to leave – but that was probably a good thing!
All the girls looked absolutely stunning and lots of pictures were taken before we headed into the white stretch limo to take us to Club Banora.

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